April 16, 2018

Some thoughts on Strap-on / Pegging

Being based in Sydney has many benefits for me as a Mistress, not the least of which is that my slaves are openly able to request activities such as pegging / strap-on play which can be legally problematic elsewhere.

Strap on is one of my most popularly requested session activities. You’ll hear no complaints from me about this. I’m an exceptionally keen, skilled straponista, in fact it’s one of my favourite activities in session.

Many of my slaves have heard the story of me chatting to Mistress Servalan about starting my Mistress apprenticeship. She told me I would need to purchase a strap-on harness and I was enthusiastically able to inform her that I already had one. Over ten years later I’m still an insatiable strapon top!

I must say though, I do prefer to use the term strap-on rather than pegging. Pegging seems to me a rather coy euphemism which has become increasingly popular as the activity has become more mainstream. Of course, I’m all for more girlfriends and wives strapping it on and enjoying a little role reversal with their partners…I’m just not sure we needed a different, slightly cutesy word to describe it. After all there’s a definite visceral pleasure in a man discarding propriety and begging to be fucked in the arse.

Sadly I find that a lot of slaves are apprehensive about strapon play due to negative experiences in the past. While I love roughly fucking enthusiastic and well prepared sluts I also enjoy slowly and carefully introducing slaves to the feeling of anal pleasure. Mistress Servalan and I have collected a very comprehensive array of anal and strapon toys, from tiny dildos (just a small step up from finger sized) for complete beginners to monster cocks suitable for the most voracious sluts. Pictured you see just a portion of the collection.

There’s a myriad of reasons that strapon is an enjoyable activity, beyond the obvious one that anal penetration and prostrate pressure simply feels good to many male bodied individuals.

Beyond the physical:
*Some slaves enjoy the feeling of being “taken” or sexually possessed by their Mistress.
*Some revel in how being penetrated exaggerates the feelings of femininity they explore in session.
*Some just love to play the greedy slut and being fucked silly is their ultimate expression of that.
*Some love the vulnerable feeling of being impossibly stretched out.
*Some enjoy the feeling of intimacy.
*Some love the feeling of humiliation they associate with being fucked.
*and many, many more.

While there’s often certain themes with kink play, motivations and “payoff” are as varied as the types of play.

Does this sound like something you’d like to explore? You can find out how to make a booking with me here.