Thank you for yesterday Dear Ms Jadis, There are two main feelings completely unchanged since yesterday, if not even more significant now, which are making me write this message. The fulfilment of making my dream of meeting you come true and the gratitude to you for having such great fun with me. I could be […]
A slave’s feedback on his first session with Sydney Dominatrix Mistress Jadis Ives. Read More »
Sleeting rain lashed the windows on that cold, miserable Friday night but it barely registered with the two eighteen year old girls swapping makeup, trying on outfits, giggling and drinking as they got ready to go out and it certainly wasn’t audible above the loud industrial music they were playing….Thus began my first fetish event,
My First Fetish Event & Things I’ve Learned Since. Read More »
Once again it’s FemDom Society Blog Hop time! This time around the topic of discussion is “Visiting a ProDomme”. In Sydney, after a break for a lockdown or two we’ve been back to sessions for quite some time now. But in the US many Dommes and subs have just been vaccinated and are able to return to the dungeon after a lengthy break. But even though I’ve been back
Ten Tips for your First Session. Read More »
While scams and impersonation have long been an issue in the world of professional BDSM, in recent months there has been a strong uptick in scammer activity. Most commonly the scammers create a social media account for a Domme, using her brand, content and pictures without her knowledge. In order to evade detection they will
Warning! Femdom Social Media Scams Read More »
One of my slaves recently wrote extensively on Fetlife about his first session with me. Reposting here with his permission as I am sure others would enjoy reading this! My first session with Mistress. I attended not knowing what would be required of me. Extremely nervous and self conscious I approached the door. I could
slave writing: My first session with Mistress. Read More »
Having very much enjoyed meeting the indomitable Princess Kali when she visited Sydney last year I was pleased to learn that she recently published a book about one of my favourite session activities, Erotic Humiliation. Erotic Humiliation is a complex topic and devotees will know that it’s actually quite difficult to find quality, detailed information on
Book Review: Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation by Princess Kali Read More »
“For this cancellation, I deserve more punishment. “ “I am sorry I wasted so much of your time but if you are angry at me shouldn’t we have a session? Then you can get revenge right? “ Right? No. Wrong actually. In the context of professional kink these types of interactions tend to indicate a
Brat Attack – “Crime”, Punishment, Consent & Ethics. Read More »
I really love intro sessions! It’s always an honour to introduce a new submissive to the world of kink. Personally it’s very gratifying to feed off the intensity of an experience that for so many is the culmination of years of longing and fantasy. Of course those contemplating a first session are always anxious, excited
What to Expect: A post for first timers! Read More »
I absolutely love playing hard. Really riding the edge of an experience is both exhilarating and intoxicating. Of course everyone has a different edge. Not only that the edge can be different from playtime to playtime. We’re all at different points in our kink journey. Many of us will move on to play harder. Some
Kink is not a competition. Read More »
Yesterday my interview with journalist Caroline Baum was published in the Sydney Morning Herald’s Spectrum magazine. The piece was primarily concerned with how the publishing industry relates to erotic fiction aimed at women. Of course, no current discussion of that topic could be complete without a mention of 50 Shades of Grey. I enjoyed chatting
Kink, abuse and “that book” : A resource post. Read More »
I’ve quite often mentioned that I love the variety I experience working as a Professional Dominatrix. I’m lucky enough to engage in many different types of kink play with many different people. There’s lots of different approaches to play – for some (often lighter players) sessioning is just a fun, erotic form of entertainment. As
Preparing for Play Read More »
The ever popular image of Mistress as a cruel, heartless, cold bitch is a fantasy hot button for many slaves…but I’m also aware that my slaves very deeply appreciate the care, attention and intention that I invest in my sessions. One of the most amazing privileges of my role is being able to create and
Creating “safe space” in session. Read More »