It’s entirely appropriate to spoil your Mistress on Valentines day! Up until a few days ago I was running my wishlist through Wishtender. Unfortunately, Wishtender have now parted ways with their payment processor Stripe, leaving them unable to pay out on purchases made through them. Fortunately, it’s still easy to buy me gifts. The simplest […]
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Are you brave enough to turn your fantasy into reality? Almost all of us have erotic fantasies. Some of us have a very dear, reliable favourite fantasy that we like to use over and over, others have an endless smorgasbord of erotic imaginings. It’s incredibly normal to have sexual fantasies. So much so that many
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Sleeting rain lashed the windows on that cold, miserable Friday night but it barely registered with the two eighteen year old girls swapping makeup, trying on outfits, giggling and drinking as they got ready to go out and it certainly wasn’t audible above the loud industrial music they were playing….Thus began my first fetish event,
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What is FemDom? At its simplest, FemDom is derived from the terms Female Domination and Female Dominance. But there’s a lot more that needs to be teased out before it can be understood since it’s used in such a wide range of ways. It can be a kink, a lifestyle or both. The term FemDom
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While scams and impersonation have long been an issue in the world of professional BDSM, in recent months there has been a strong uptick in scammer activity. Most commonly the scammers create a social media account for a Domme, using her brand, content and pictures without her knowledge. In order to evade detection they will
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One of my slaves recently wrote extensively on Fetlife about his first session with me. Reposting here with his permission as I am sure others would enjoy reading this! My first session with Mistress. I attended not knowing what would be required of me. Extremely nervous and self conscious I approached the door. I could
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“For this cancellation, I deserve more punishment. “ “I am sorry I wasted so much of your time but if you are angry at me shouldn’t we have a session? Then you can get revenge right? “ Right? No. Wrong actually. In the context of professional kink these types of interactions tend to indicate a
Brat Attack – “Crime”, Punishment, Consent & Ethics. Read More »
I really love intro sessions! It’s always an honour to introduce a new submissive to the world of kink. Personally it’s very gratifying to feed off the intensity of an experience that for so many is the culmination of years of longing and fantasy. Of course those contemplating a first session are always anxious, excited
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Republished here as Kate’s blog is no longer online. 1. How would you describe your role in the sex industry? As a Dominatrix I deal with erotic expression that falls outside the standard vanilla “box”. Kink, BDSM & Fetish,.specifically experiences where people want to be topped in some way.. My job is more varied than
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I absolutely love playing hard. Really riding the edge of an experience is both exhilarating and intoxicating. Of course everyone has a different edge. Not only that the edge can be different from playtime to playtime. We’re all at different points in our kink journey. Many of us will move on to play harder. Some
Kink is not a competition. Read More »
Yesterday my interview with journalist Caroline Baum was published in the Sydney Morning Herald’s Spectrum magazine. The piece was primarily concerned with how the publishing industry relates to erotic fiction aimed at women. Of course, no current discussion of that topic could be complete without a mention of 50 Shades of Grey. I enjoyed chatting
Kink, abuse and “that book” : A resource post. Read More »
I’ve quite often mentioned that I love the variety I experience working as a Professional Dominatrix. I’m lucky enough to engage in many different types of kink play with many different people. There’s lots of different approaches to play – for some (often lighter players) sessioning is just a fun, erotic form of entertainment. As
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