I’ve just finished reading Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian’s “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure” and I highly recommend it to anyone interested in anal play, tops and bottoms both. I’m a huge fan of Charlie Glickman’s work in general. I’ve always appreciated his thoughtful and balanced approach to sex positivity and some of his […]
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Republished here as Kate’s blog is no longer online. 1. How would you describe your role in the sex industry? As a Dominatrix I deal with erotic expression that falls outside the standard vanilla “box”. Kink, BDSM & Fetish,.specifically experiences where people want to be topped in some way.. My job is more varied than
My Interview w/ Lawyer and Sex Work Advocate KateontheGo Read More »
I absolutely love playing hard. Really riding the edge of an experience is both exhilarating and intoxicating. Of course everyone has a different edge. Not only that the edge can be different from playtime to playtime. We’re all at different points in our kink journey. Many of us will move on to play harder. Some
Kink is not a competition. Read More »
Yesterday my interview with journalist Caroline Baum was published in the Sydney Morning Herald’s Spectrum magazine. The piece was primarily concerned with how the publishing industry relates to erotic fiction aimed at women. Of course, no current discussion of that topic could be complete without a mention of 50 Shades of Grey. I enjoyed chatting
Kink, abuse and “that book” : A resource post. Read More »
I’ve quite often mentioned that I love the variety I experience working as a Professional Dominatrix. I’m lucky enough to engage in many different types of kink play with many different people. There’s lots of different approaches to play – for some (often lighter players) sessioning is just a fun, erotic form of entertainment. As
Preparing for Play Read More »
So glad to see some spring weather in Sydney finally. While Carisbrook was a welcome escape from the rain and wind it’s great to see the sun out. I’ve been keeping myself busy in the dungeon with quite a few roleplay sessions. While I’m normally into more esoteric roleplays, late last week I had fun
Classic roleplay in session: School & Office Read More »
“The next day I woke up and with every breath I could feel a slight pain on my rip cage. Each breath brought up vivid memories from the day before. The day I was lucky enough to serve Mistress Jadis and her apprentice Mistress Atreides. Each breath reminded me how lucky I was to be
A double Mistress Session w/ Mistress Jadis & Miss Atreides Read More »
The ever popular image of Mistress as a cruel, heartless, cold bitch is a fantasy hot button for many slaves…but I’m also aware that my slaves very deeply appreciate the care, attention and intention that I invest in my sessions. One of the most amazing privileges of my role is being able to create and
Creating “safe space” in session. Read More »
It’s been a relaxing day for me today. I’ve been a busy Mistress in general of late but I certainly deserve a day off after last night’s overnight session. slave had played with me extensively before and was celebrating his birthday. We’d been planning this overnight for quite some time but as he loves pleasing
A slave’s review of a recent couple’s session. “This is my review in regards to the session i had with my Mistress and my wife. My wife and Mistress Jadis get along together so well its seriously unheard off. The reason the session was set up was because my wife complained to Mistress that i
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For something a little different today I’ve interviewed my friend, sex therapist Nina B. What motivated you to study sex therapy? I studied Psychology after high school but the generic scope of it. I have always had a high libido and enjoyed sex. When I had a talk radio show in the USA I wanted
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I’ve been getting my roleplay on again. Murder most foul! This time my victim was a willing and horny leather special girl who I picked up at a club. She’d been watching me over a few weeks and had noticed that none of the ladies who I took home with me ever seemed to come
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